Tuesday, 10 June 2025

Success!!

Think on It !! 

What is the boiling frog syndrome?

Put a frog in a vessel of water and start heating the water.

As the temperature of the water rises, the frog is able to adjust its body temperature accordingly.

The frog keeps on adjusting with increase in temperature...




Just when the water is about to reach boiling point, the frog is not able to adjust anymore...

At that point the frog decides to jump out...



The frog tries to jump but is unable to do so, because it has lost all its strength in adjusting with the rising water temperature...


Very soon the frog dies.

What killed the frog?

Many of us would say the boiling water...

But the truth is what killed the frog was its own inability to decide when it had to jump out.

We all need to adjust with people and situations, but we need to be sure when we need to adjust and when we need to confront/face.

There are times when we need to face the situation and take the appropriate action...

If we allow people to exploit us physically, mentally, emotionally or financially, they will continue to do so...

We have to decide when to jump.

Let us jump while we still have the strength. 

Think on It !! 

How does this metaphor translate into our everyday lives? 


The essence of the boiling frog syndrome is that when our living conditions deteriorate gradually, we adapt to these conditions instead of getting rid of them, until we are no longer strong enough to escape. 
The boiling frog syndrome may occur in our relationships, interactions, or work-related situation. 
You should remember that you should say “ENOUGH” strongly when you feel that the situation you are in makes you worse and you cannot find a way to change it.



 I love this message every time I read...

Sunday, 20 April 2025

Success demands these 6 things.. 

(The Secret Formula)
 1.  Hard Work 
Don't believe in luck, believe in hard work. 
Stop trying to rush the process or searching for a shortcut. 
There is none.


2.  Patience 
If you are losing the patience, you are losing the battle. 
First nothing happens, then it happens slowly and suddenly all at once. 
Most people give up at stage one.


 3.  Sacrifice
If you don't sacrifice for what you want, then what you want becomes the sacrifice.
Everything has its price. The question is: Are you ready to pay it for the life you desire?


4.  Consistency 
Consistency is what transforms average into excellence. 
Without consistency, you will never achieve greater success.


5.  Discipline 
Motivation gets you going, but discipline keeps you growing. 
There will be days when you don't “feel” like doing it. 
You have to push through those days regardless of how you feel.



 6.  Self Confidence 
Confidence is, I'll be fine if they don't like me.

Friday, 12 January 2018

What a great message!!!


What a great message 

Subject: Value 

JRD Tata had a friend who used to say that he misplaces and loses his pen very often. He will use only very cheap pens so that he need not worry about losing them. He was worried about carelessness habit, 
JRD suggested to him to buy the costliest pen he could afford and see what happens. He did that and purchased a 22 carat gold Cross pen. After nearly six months JRD met him and asked him if he continues to misplace his pen. His friend said that he is very careful about his costly pen and he is surprised how he has changed! JRD explained to him that the value of the pen made the difference and there was nothing wrong with him as a person! 
This is what happens in our life. We are careful with things which we value most. 
If we value our health, we will be careful about what and how we eat; 
If we value our friends, we will treat them with respect; 
If we value money, we will be careful while spending; 
If we value our time, we will not waste it. 
If we value relationship we will not break it. 
Carefulness is a basic trait all of us have, we know when to be careful! 
Carelessness only shows what we don't value.....




Wednesday, 25 October 2017

One of the best message I have received...

One of the best message I have received...

8 boys were standing  on a track for racing.

Ready !

Steady !

Bang !

With sound of Pistol all boys started running.

Hardly  had they covered 10 to 15 steps,
1 boy slipped & fell.

 He started crying due to pain.

When other 7 Boys heard him, all of them STOPPED running..

STOOD for a while,

turned BACK & RAN towards  him.

All the 7 Boys LIFTED the Boy, pacified him, 
joined hands together, walked together and
reached WINNING Post.

Officials were shocked.

Many Eyes were filled with tears.

It happened at Pune.

Race was conducted by National Institute  of Mental Health...

All participants were Mentally RETARDED.

What did they teach ?
Teamwork,
Humanity,
Sportsman spirit,
Love,
Care,
&
Equality..

We Surely can NEVER Do this,

because...

We have Brains....
We have Ego...
We have Attitude
One of the best messages I've received and sent...

Saturday, 23 September 2017

Release Some Air (Ego), and Adjust The Height (Attitude).

An engineer in a car manufacturing company designs a world class car. The owner is impressed with the outcome and praised him a lot.

While trying to bring out the car from the manufacturing area to the showroom, they realised that the car is 2 inches taller than the entrance.

The engineer felt bad that he didn't notice this one before creating the car.

The owner was amazed on how to take it outside of the manufacturing area.

The painter said that they can bring out the car and there will be a few scratches on top of the car which could be touched up later on.

The engineer said that they can break the entrance, take the car out, and later re-do it.

The owner was not convinced with any ideas and felt like it is a bad sign to break or scratch

A Watchman was observing all the drama & slowly approached the owner.  He wanted to give an idea if they had no problem.

They wondered what this guy would tell them that the experts could not give.

The watchman said "The car is only a few inches taller than the entrance so, Simply release the air in the tyre, the height of the car will sink and can be easily taken out"...

Everyone clapped!!!

Don't analyse the problems only from an expert point of view alone.

There is always a layman's outlook that gives an alternate solution at a given point of time...

Life issues are also the same....

Everyone around your life has a key role in your life accomplishment.

Don't look down on anyone in your life.

Take note, everybody is important.

Think Simple...
Do Simple and Live Simple
Because Originally we are Happy Souls..

Release Some Air (Ego),
and
Adjust The Height (Attitude).